Dove told me awhile ago that there is a woman close to me that would put energy into the atmosphere that was negative between my POI and that I would soon see who it was. At the time, I was taken aback and confused...but sure enough, it turned out to be my mother, and she sure had a lot to say. I am supposed to have a happier ending though, and she continues to maintain this and give me the tools I need for even the time comes. Talking to her has been helpful in my growth to not make the same mistakes I've made in the past and to be in a healthier, balanced relationship when I'm ready. I would definitely give her a try. There have been many times she has said things that I thought she was crazy and she was right. So getting a positive feels good...but she will prepare you for the journey ahead too.